Friday, January 4, 2008

NATURE...GIVE GIVE...

Sun...Nature is selfless...serves..gives...
non stop.... they dont look for holidays...sundays... SUN gives light to all..flowers spread fragrance...to all....no partiality..

but we human beings.....oh ho.ah ha.. v choose...v love those where we have some returns..

Sandalwood perfumes even the axe that hurls it down! The more we rub sandalwood against a stone, the more its fragrance spreads. Burn it, and it wafts its glory through the entire neighbourhood. Such is the enchanting beauty of forgiveness in life.
- My great Gurudev

rule says, "love ppl, use things"
we do the opposite.. "Love things, use ppl"


GIVE GIVE GIVE...versus GET GET GET..

it is always GIVE GIVE winning.

let me share something very bful.

Four stages of our life:

each stage has 2 options. each stages has 2 G's.

Stage I: Infant - GET GET

The child only wants to get get.. anything it does not diffrentiate whether it is a toy or a key or a glass of alcohol. Blindly GET GET...or cry.

Stage II: SCHOOLING - values instilled in installments, so GET, GIVE

First GET and then extra..remaining GIVE,,,.. get ur son/daughter two bful dresses..then ask her to give one to sis/relative/fren.. wil do it.. so here first GET then GIVE.

Stage III: Adults...MARRIED [fortunately (or) Unfortunately] GIVE , GET

no other option but to give love, give respect...coz only then U wil GET.. so here, first GIVE then GET... if v fail to give, we dont get..so helpless...GIVE to GET...

Stage IV: Grand Parents.. GIVE GIVE..

they understand the law, GOD has no such rule till now that pack ur welath, carry it with U.. so wisdom showers...spark of selflessness.. GIVE, GIVE.

This is the beauty of 4 stages of our lives. please THINK, these are four kinds of Personalities. Four kinds of Executives.

Evaluate... Choose... decide....

First type GET GET.... SELFISH GURU. will reach little heights for sure. TEMPORARY.

Second GET GIVE.... still selfish, coz the first question is "wat will i get?" then i wil give?

Third GIVE GET.... this is a little better... in hindi its said..."Pehle Aap", so here man grows first the well being of others....then me. Sanskrit is a very bful language.

GRAMMAR:

First Person HE/SHE
Second Person YOU
Third Person I

In English it is the opposite...

First Person I
Second Person YOU
Third Person HE/SHE

just the beauty of Selflessness....

in the third type, an executive/person suffers a little pain due to the expectaio of GETTING....RECEIVING....anxiety...performance level decreases... y Sachin is expecting to reach his HUNDRED....out on 99... til 99 plays like a master....

So "DO THE BEST, LEAVE THE REST"

Fourth Type: GIVE GIVE...

A husband/wife/executive keeps on giving....GIVE GIVE policy... most of us think but how long? am I a fool? answer NO,

The person who is receiving has to share...coz U have loaded him with love/favours/performance................... REWARD follows... no need to chase/expect..

ok...let us exercise little freedom to expect.. but no strong expectations... "It is not the expectations that bring sorrow, but INSISTING on the fulfilment of your expectations!"
SUCCESS is sure to the sincere.

"Happiness depends upon wat U can GIVE and not wat U can get" - Swami Chinmayanandji

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