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GOD BLESS U.. God made U wiser. Very thankful2U.

Life is a gift of GOD. As U know, there are 84 lakh species and the highest among them is a human birth. So, it is the rarest...the most precious GIFT, sign of love for U and me.

So, we should do something that we cannot do in our other janms...like we eat, drink, run behind the opposite sex, fight, love for family.....all these is seen in animals also. We should do something special too... like born as a man-man walk the path and become God-man. let us make our efforts. eat right, drink right, love not just for the family but for the whole Universe...even for a donkey. if i have love in my heart...it should be given to ALL....even to a pig. but when we become choosy...love one or two then we are selfish..we love with an expectation for some benefit.

Gurudev, Swami Chinmayanandji has very bfully said, "What we have is HIS gift to us, what we do with we what we have is our gift to HIM."

HIS/HIM refers to GOD.

We are born to serve, we should live for others. Our life should be a service to the mankind. Thousands of Saints live for others. simple - share & care.

most important thing, we shud be happy har pal. it is GOD's play. HIS divine will... let us accept it as a PRASAD...HIS love for us..HIS gift... HIS BLESSINGS.... HE loves us the most...the TRUE lover... can HE even think of hurting U and Me... every situation is HIS love... our growth... our need... Keep smiling har pal. Let HIM play HIS music, just be HIS flute. One of my sweet little student of class VI, once shared a very bful thought... she said, "Life is a role to play in such a manner, that GOD - the Director says, "Ur Name, U played the BEST!!".

being dukhi, worrying is maha papa. Atheist is defined not the one who does not believe in GOD but an athiest is the one who believes in GOD and still worries.

My request to you....quickly promise me "NEVER to WORRY" .....Refuse to be dukhi.

another bful thought....there is a verse in sanskrit, it says "there is no better nourisher than the mother's milk for the human body and there is no worse destroyer than CHINTA...WORRY for the human body.

In similar lines...another thought goes... "Which is more POWERFUL???? which one is worse???? CHITA (Funeral) or CHINTA (worry) ?....Ans: simple and clear - obviously CHINTA (worry) as...CHITA (Funeral) only burns a dead body but CHINTA - WORRY burns the living body."

Once I was with one of the best doctors, He shared the words of the actress Shilpa Shetty, we should live our life in such a manner that when i go through the pages of my life, let me not be ashamed of even a single page.

He continued... "we are born in a particular set of situation..let us leave the world a little better than we found when we entered."

Say to urself, "I'm Special" which is a fact.

GOD made U Original, plz love urself. let us not die a copy. Never compare.. just enjoy. DO the BEST & Leave the REST. remember never to postpone happiness.... dont imagine a PROBLEM free situation.... be in harmony with problems.... Mr. Sorrow and Ms. Joy are part of life.... Ms. Joy has nails, she would scratch U if U hold her tightly.... Mr. Sorrow will break ur doors and windows if U close the doors.... So, just smile... offer beer to Mr. Sorrow and Diet Coke to Ms. Joy. both will come to U..keep smiling har pal. THANK GOD har pal...every moment... Gratitude is the secret of all joy, richness, once V realise how much V already have....V wont become a beggars again...

V r born LUCKY. thnku for ur patience....U r great...

love,
sunny.

Article to one my fren

love+gratitude:

"love is giving happiness to the beloved.....attachment is for oneself...love isalways for others....in attachment we look for our benefit....but in love it is always the beloved.....love is only giving joy to the beloved.....love is being happy in beloved's happiness......nobody wants to be a slave......nobody likes to be bossed upon.....love is giving freedom...love is trust..... possessiveness is insecurity..attachment is sorrow...possessiveness issorrow , hell for both,,....love is heaven.....giving.....remedy is give love....give joy..share evrerything with ur beloved.....but V shud never get into business - barter system. i share, u share...i smile, u smile.. i talk two words sweetly U return two sweet words.....i give u 1 kg of love daily..u give me double or atleast 1 kg in return.......this is not love....

love that demands even love in return is not love.....love contaminated with desires is not love...it is attachment, possessiveness, .it is a curse...it is pain...love knows no motives.....love has no desires........A mother / child relation mein both serve, love, have great fun....no trouble... love is to serve... love is labour...giving joy to the beloved...is love..A mother is never tired working for the child..

Gurudev has said something so bful..."We like someone because of....we love someone "INSPITE OF".

this is the secret...love is INSPITE OF....jaise b ho...watever beloved does...We still love HIM/HER the most... this is love for GOD... if V can have this bhaav for our family..wife/husband..in laws,,, mom/dad.... there would be joy...super relationship...peace..khushi.. .coz we love them inspite of sab kuch...chahe kuch b kahe/kare.....we will serve,,,, being happy in other's happiness is life...agar hum khush rahenge then we will make our beloved happy..keep our family....happy....keep the people around happy....so let us strive for this. .

Gurudev has very beautifuly said.........."Dont put the key to ur happiness into someone else's pocket."

so let us promise each other that v wil b happy always....keep smiling inspite of everything.......har pal...

Love for family:

YOU should not b crying before ur family..bro, sis....(overload....hone par b plz write to me..share everything with me.im there to take away all ur problems, ready to reply, listen, feel...share, care)..
do u think by seeing ur tears they will become happy?
do u think U sharing joy?
U r only burdening them?
U r giving them pain?
suppose ur bro or sis is so happy....and u r upset and overloaded with some problem and u pour out and start crying,.,.,remember U r spoiling their maja, joy, happiness !

a true lover is never sad at the physical separation of the beloved.......... because beloved always remains in the heart.


We are Blessed with the most beautiful life...

HE gave us everything...

HE gave u ME...joking..but MUMMY,DIDI, BHAIYA, BHABHI, GOOD HEALTHY BODY, BEAUTY, AKAL, NORMAL BRAIN, MONEY TO TRAVEL, GOOD JOB, EDUCATION, DRESSES,SANDALS..this also gets gratitude... secret of contentment...santosha....i have already shared the bful story of a bird...the power of gratitude...the daily gratitude journal.(plz confirm these emails - bird story and daily note of gratitude) if we truly love GOD....then we shud always be happy...

THANK HIM for everything. ..is anything troubling you? koi problem hai to share karo....jaldi..waiting...wil pray for ur very long happy life...full of joy, strength....peace...

be happy inspite of everything...Thank you very much.......enjoyed writing to you. keep smiling.

love,sunny.

'Because of' (or) "INSPITE OF"

Let us drop the 'Because of' and start living the "INSPITE OF"

Like U r my friend...U tolerate me, my emails, my sms, my phone call...it is since so many months, days, ////still U SMILE, U r Happy. this is the perfect example of "INSPITE OF"...U r happy INSPITE OF me..

likewise, a husband shud always be happy INSPITE of his wife... vice versa..
a mother in law shud always be happy INSPITE of the daughter in law... vice versa..
An employee shud always be happy INSPITE of the boss... vice versa..

now if we had to reverse the case, it would be "BECAUSE OF"...it is pure slavery...dependence..
i'm happy because my girl friend SMILED..
i'm happy because if the lovely LUNCH
A husband is happy because of his wife... (though it never happens, plz assume it)...imagine even if it happens.....it will not last...we kow that..ha ha ha...

because is NEVER lasting and the INSPITE OF is EVER LASTING..

I work because of the incentive..so im a buffalo..i need whips to move...
I remember a wonderful incident that i read...happened in a very good village where a couple boarded a tonga// a horse cart... it was very strange that the horse would move 5 steps and stop. the cart owner wud get down and dance in front of the horse and come back to his seat...the horse would move for the next 5 steps then the cart owner had to show his dancing skills again... this continued till the couple reached their destination.. Finally after this interesting drama, the couple asked, "wat is the matter?" The cart owner replied, "mine is a shaadi ka ghoda (horse used for marriage)"..... moves only when ppl dance...then stop...then again moves..on and on..

So, choose to be a buffalo, shaadi ka ghoda or a gud normal swift horse...

so when it comes to relationship management... we say,..

We like someone 'because of' ,,...we love someone "INSPITE OF"
the former is attachement, slavery and for barter system...there is misery sorrow for sure..V get it FREE without any hardowrk..but in the latter....INSPITE OF...we only GIVE Love,,..and give it to all.. even to a pig, dog or an enemy..

we talk about gains, maximum returns...it is gauranteed the day V drop the because and pick the INSPITE OF...

GOD BLESS ALL...