love+gratitude:
"love is giving happiness to the beloved.....attachment is for oneself...love isalways for others....in attachment we look for our benefit....but in love it is always the beloved.....love is only giving joy to the beloved.....love is being happy in beloved's happiness......nobody wants to be a slave......nobody likes to be bossed upon.....love is giving freedom...love is trust..... possessiveness is insecurity..attachment is sorrow...possessiveness issorrow , hell for both,,....love is heaven.....giving.....remedy is give love....give joy..share evrerything with ur beloved.....but V shud never get into business - barter system. i share, u share...i smile, u smile.. i talk two words sweetly U return two sweet words.....i give u 1 kg of love daily..u give me double or atleast 1 kg in return.......this is not love....
love that demands even love in return is not love.....love contaminated with desires is not love...it is attachment, possessiveness, .it is a curse...it is pain...love knows no motives.....love has no desires........A mother / child relation mein both serve, love, have great fun....no trouble... love is to serve... love is labour...giving joy to the beloved...is love..A mother is never tired working for the child..
Gurudev has said something so bful..."We like someone because of....we love someone "INSPITE OF".
this is the secret...love is INSPITE OF....jaise b ho...watever beloved does...We still love HIM/HER the most... this is love for GOD... if V can have this bhaav for our family..wife/husband..in laws,,, mom/dad.... there would be joy...super relationship...peace..khushi.. .coz we love them inspite of sab kuch...chahe kuch b kahe/kare.....we will serve,,,, being happy in other's happiness is life...agar hum khush rahenge then we will make our beloved happy..keep our family....happy....keep the people around happy....so let us strive for this. .
Gurudev has very beautifuly said.........."Dont put the key to ur happiness into someone else's pocket."
so let us promise each other that v wil b happy always....keep smiling inspite of everything.......har pal...
Love for family:
YOU should not b crying before ur family..bro, sis....(overload....hone par b plz write to me..share everything with me.im there to take away all ur problems, ready to reply, listen, feel...share, care)..
do u think by seeing ur tears they will become happy?
do u think U sharing joy?
U r only burdening them?
U r giving them pain?
suppose ur bro or sis is so happy....and u r upset and overloaded with some problem and u pour out and start crying,.,.,remember U r spoiling their maja, joy, happiness !
a true lover is never sad at the physical separation of the beloved.......... because beloved always remains in the heart.
We are Blessed with the most beautiful life...
HE gave us everything...
HE gave u ME...joking..but MUMMY,DIDI, BHAIYA, BHABHI, GOOD HEALTHY BODY, BEAUTY, AKAL, NORMAL BRAIN, MONEY TO TRAVEL, GOOD JOB, EDUCATION, DRESSES,SANDALS..this also gets gratitude... secret of contentment...santosha....i have already shared the bful story of a bird...the power of gratitude...the daily gratitude journal.(plz confirm these emails - bird story and daily note of gratitude) if we truly love GOD....then we shud always be happy...
THANK HIM for everything. ..is anything troubling you? koi problem hai to share karo....jaldi..waiting...wil pray for ur very long happy life...full of joy, strength....peace...
be happy inspite of everything...Thank you very much.......enjoyed writing to you. keep smiling.
love,sunny.
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