'Because of' (or) "INSPITE OF"

Let us drop the 'Because of' and start living the "INSPITE OF"

Like U r my friend...U tolerate me, my emails, my sms, my phone call...it is since so many months, days, ////still U SMILE, U r Happy. this is the perfect example of "INSPITE OF"...U r happy INSPITE OF me..

likewise, a husband shud always be happy INSPITE of his wife... vice versa..
a mother in law shud always be happy INSPITE of the daughter in law... vice versa..
An employee shud always be happy INSPITE of the boss... vice versa..

now if we had to reverse the case, it would be "BECAUSE OF"...it is pure slavery...dependence..
i'm happy because my girl friend SMILED..
i'm happy because if the lovely LUNCH
A husband is happy because of his wife... (though it never happens, plz assume it)...imagine even if it happens.....it will not last...we kow that..ha ha ha...

because is NEVER lasting and the INSPITE OF is EVER LASTING..

I work because of the incentive..so im a buffalo..i need whips to move...
I remember a wonderful incident that i read...happened in a very good village where a couple boarded a tonga// a horse cart... it was very strange that the horse would move 5 steps and stop. the cart owner wud get down and dance in front of the horse and come back to his seat...the horse would move for the next 5 steps then the cart owner had to show his dancing skills again... this continued till the couple reached their destination.. Finally after this interesting drama, the couple asked, "wat is the matter?" The cart owner replied, "mine is a shaadi ka ghoda (horse used for marriage)"..... moves only when ppl dance...then stop...then again moves..on and on..

So, choose to be a buffalo, shaadi ka ghoda or a gud normal swift horse...

so when it comes to relationship management... we say,..

We like someone 'because of' ,,...we love someone "INSPITE OF"
the former is attachement, slavery and for barter system...there is misery sorrow for sure..V get it FREE without any hardowrk..but in the latter....INSPITE OF...we only GIVE Love,,..and give it to all.. even to a pig, dog or an enemy..

we talk about gains, maximum returns...it is gauranteed the day V drop the because and pick the INSPITE OF...

GOD BLESS ALL...